Abide with Me (Invisible Life Series #3)

Abide with Me (Invisible Life Series #3)

by E. Lynn Harris


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In this hotly anticipated conclusion to his popular Invisible Life trilogy, E. Lynn Harris delivers a masterful tale that traces the evolving lives of his beloved characters Nicole Springer and Raymond Tyler, Jr., and reintroduces readers to their respective lovers, best friends, and potential enemies.  Abide with Me moves between the worlds of New York City, where Nicole has recently settled in order to pursue her dream of returning to the Broadway stage, and Seattle, where a late-night phone call from a U.S. Senator is about to change Raymond's life dramatically.  Relationships and ambitions are tested as Harris deftly guides us toward this entertaining novel's conclusion.

Sexy and heartwarming in equal measure, Abide with Me will thrill new readers as well as fans already familiar with Harris's unique take on the universal themes of love, friendship, and family.  E. Lynn Harris has truly done it again.

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780385486583
Publisher: Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group
Publication date: 05/28/2000
Series: Invisible Life Series , #3
Pages: 368
Sales rank: 516,389
Product dimensions: 5.30(w) x 8.00(h) x 0.80(d)

About the Author

E. Lynn Harris's next novel, Not a Day Goes By, will be published in Summer 2000 by Doubleday.  He is the author of four other highly acclaimed novels, all available from Anchor.  Mr. Harris lives in Chicago and New York.


Chicago, Illinois

Date of Birth:

June 20, 1955

Date of Death:

July 23, 2009

Place of Birth:

Flint, Michigan

Place of Death:

Los Angeles, California


B.A. in journalism, University of Arkansas at Fayetteville, 1977

Read an Excerpt

Raymond removed his suit coat and began reviewing the mail when he suddenly noticed a large brown package with a note from Trent. Hey babe! Hope you had a great day. This package just came for you. I'm at the gym, then off to do some work. See ya. Love, Trent. As Raymond picked up the package he thought he should be at the gym with Trent.

The package was heavy and Raymond could tell from the handwriting that it was from his mother. But it didn't feel like cookies, brownies, or any type of food he had been expecting. Raymond tore open the package and out spilled a black leather photo binder. Taped to the front of it was a note on frilly paper from his mother. My Dearest Son, I hope this helps with the confirmation. I've been looking forward to the day when you might need this. I love you and I'm so proud of you. Your mother.

The house was quiet and the evening sun bathed the den in a golden glow. The room was large, with hardwood floors, a beautiful Persian rug, black leather furniture, forty-six-inch television, and an antique rolltop mahogany desk. This was the room where Raymond and Trent spent many quiet evenings enjoying each other, watching sporting events or reading while snuggled on the couch. Raymond leaned against the desk and opened the binder.

On the first page was a copy of his birth certificate and his footprints. He looked at the date, June 20, the time, 4:56 A.M., and his weight, 8 pounds 6 ounces. He read his father's name and "student" listed as his occupation and his mother's maiden name of Gaines and her occupation of "teacher." Raymond couldn't recall the last time he'd seen his birth certificate and the black-and-white photograph of him as a newborn. Curly hair, eyes closed tight. Only three days old.

As Raymond slowly turned page after page, he realized the treasure he was holding: a memoir of his life from his mother's eyes. A magical binder that included photographs, report cards, teachers' names, school names and addresses from kindergarten to high school.

There were pictures and awards from football, basketball, and tennis camps that Raymond had attended during his youth. Photos taken with Santa and other special activities like the Cubs and Boy Scouts. His first NAACP membership card, certificates from Sunday school, vacation Bible school, and articles that appeared in school and local newspapers. A tattered picture of Raymond in his high school football uniform, holding his younger brother, Kirby. Memories that had slipped from Raymond's mind.

There were letters and cards Raymond had sent his parents and even letters his mother had discovered from his first love, Sela, the young lady he had fallen in love with on sight at a high school basketball game. Numerous pictures of Raymond and Sela at their high school prom, parties, and sporting events, and fraternity and sorority mementos from their days at the University of Alabama. Every important person and event that occurred up until his graduation from law school was lovingly placed in this special book.

During his parents' weekend visit Raymond had mentioned how much he was dreading tracking down all the information required for his confirmation. The financial stuff would be easy. All Raymond had to do was call his accountant and the reports would be ready. But the FBI wanted more. Organizations in which he held memberships, papers he had written, and a random sampling of cases he'd handled as a lawyer, not just in Seattle, but throughout his career.

They also requested information on the schools he attended, including the names of teachers and friends who might vouch for his good character, and evidence that he had always been a good citizen. His mother appeared pleased when she said she might have something that would help him out. When Raymond and his father asked what, she had said, "That's my little secret and I don't know if I'm ready to let go. What did I always tell you? Save some secrets for yourself."

Some of the secrets Raymond had saved for himself didn't make the book. There were no pictures of Kelvin, the handsome University of Alabama football player who had seduced Raymond on a beautiful fall Friday during his senior year. But how would Raymond's mother know about that life-changing experience? He wondered where Kelvin might be at this exact moment, whether he was dead or alive, if he had remarried or was spending his life with a man. There was one picture of Kyle, Raymond's first openly gay friend, in a group photo his mother had taken on a visit to New York, but no pictures of Kyle during his last months on earth, before he succumbed to AIDS. Raymond's smile disappeared as he thought about Kelvin and Kyle, but it returned quickly when he thought of the great times he had shared with each of them. The romantic snowy night when Raymond and Kelvin came oh so close to making love with only a winter sky covering them. Raymond could hear Whitney Houston singing "You Give Good Love," even though no music was playing. He thought of a warm spring night in New York's Greenwich Village, standing outside of Keller's, where he and Kyle would comment on the good-looking men going in and out of the bar, waging bets on who would take home the best-looking guy. Moments like these were missing from the book. Moments in his life he'd never shared with his mother or any member of his immediate family, simply because he thought they just wouldn't understand.

But there were other memories of his New York tenure in the binder. A newspaper article about Nicole Springer, the Broadway actress Raymond had fallen in love with harder than ever before, harder even than with Kelvin. He'd always known in his heart of hearts that Kelvin and he wouldn't last. Nicole was now an official part of his family after she married his best friend and play brother, Jared. There were no photographs of the hospital hallway where Raymond confessed to a stunned Nicole his sexual desires for men. Yet, like hearing the silent music, Raymond could still see Nicole's horrified face.

There was a picture of his mother, himself, and Sela on her wedding day—to someone else. For a moment, it looked like the picture everybody in Birmingham thought possible. Raymond and Sela married. There they were, Raymond's mother looking like the mother of the groom, Sela in a beautiful wedding gown, and Raymond smiling in a handsome black suit. He was not the groom but only a guest, at a wedding that occurred a few weeks after his confession to Nicole. The day he realized there would be no wedding day for him.

Raymond smiled to himself, and his eyes became moist as he reviewed the melancholy milestones of his life. And then a tear escaped from his left eye and rolled down his cheek. He felt overcome with emotion from the gift his mother had given him. He wanted to call her and thank her and share some of the moments she'd left out simply because he hadn't shared them with her before. But Raymond didn't pick up the phone, only inches away. He wanted to share this moment with Trent, and yet a part of him relished being able to review his life in solitude. It was a special feeling, a special moment. And even though the house was still silent, he could hear Trent's voice after the first time they made love in their new home, quiet like now. Trent had whispered in his lover's ear, "Some of the best moments in life are when we don't have a clue of what to say or do."

Later that evening, Raymond got a call from Trent saying he was working late and asked if he wanted him to stop and pick up something to eat.

"Naw, that's okay. I'm not that hungry," Raymond said softly.

"Are you all right?"

"I'm fine. Just enjoying the evening and life," Raymond said.

"What was in the package?" Trent asked.

"A really special gift from my mother. It's hard to describe it, but I'll show it to you after I've enjoyed it," Raymond said.

"Okay. I'll see you later on."


"Yes, Raymond?"

"Thanks for being such a gift to me," Raymond said.

"What a nice thing to say. Are you sure everything is okay?"

"Never been more certain," Raymond said.

After hanging up, Raymond picked up the phone and called Jared. Nicole answered the phone. He still loved the sound of her voice.

"Nicole, how you doing?"

"Raymond? Of course it's Raymond. I'm doing fine, sweetheart. Is everything okay?" Raymond was thinking people close to him didn't understand the sweet sadness he was enjoying. But how could they?

"I'm doing just great. I know you're happy to be back in the Big Apple," Raymond said.

"I sure am. Matter of fact, I'm on my way out the door. Going to a party one of the members of the cast is giving. Want to speak to your boy?"

"Is he there?"

"Sure, let me get him. It's nice talking to you, Raymond. I hope we'll see you and Trent real soon," Nicole said.

"Same here. It's always nice hearing your voice," Raymond said.

After a few seconds Jared came on the phone.

"Whassup, whassup, my niggah?"

"You, my brother. How is everything?"

"Everything's cool, couldn't be cooler if I was sitting in a tub of ice," Jared joked.

"You sound happy."

"Why wouldn't I be? Life is sweet."

"I'm not keeping you from nuthing, am I?"

"You know I always got time for you. Besides, Nicole's gone to her party and I'm getting ready to look over some work and hit the sack," Jared said.

Raymond and Jared spent the next hour talking like they hadn't talked for months. In reality they spoke briefly at least once a week, sometimes two or three times.

Raymond, knowing Jared was really a small-city type of guy, asked him how he was dealing with New York. When Jared said he was loving it, Raymond teased him about how he used to say he could never see himself living in New York.

Jared asked how things were going with Trent and the confirmation and if he had any dates for the hearings.

"You know, I know people in D.C., so when you go down there for the hearing, I want to be in the front row. In case any of them congressmen wanna act stupid. I got yo' back," Jared said.

"And you know it," Raymond said.

"Are you sure you're all right?" Jared asked as the conversation neared an end. Before answering the question, Raymond told Jared about the gift his mother had sent and how it had got him to thinking about his life and everything.

"Your moms and pops are some special people," Jared said. "What a wonderful gift."

"So you see, my brother, I'm fine. I just wanted you to know what a gift you are to me. And I love ya, man," Raymond said.

"And I love you back," Jared said.

Reading Group Guide

The Invisible Life Trilogy

In three linked novels—Invisible Life, Just As I Am, and Abide With Me—E. Lynn Harris opens the door to a world rarely depicted in popular literature, the gay and bisexual black community. Written with sensitivity and sass, the novels have all appeared on the Blackboard bestseller list and have won enthusiastic acclaim from critics and a broad range of readers. The questions, discussion topics, and suggested reading list that follow are designed to enhance your reading group's discussion of the books and the insights they offer into the lives of men and women, gay and straight, as they face such universal problems as finding and keeping love, making the right career choices, and dealing with sometimes difficult parents, co-workers, and friends.

At the center of the Invisible Life trilogy is Raymond Tyler, a man struggling to do the right thing without betraying his past or sacrificing his dreams. The son of a successful lawyer in Birmingham, Alabama, Raymond always assumed he would follow in his father's footsteps. His life takes an unexpected turn, however, when he finds himself attracted to a handsome fraternity brother at college. Their carefully cloaked relationship—at once confusing, exhilarating, and frightening—marks the first step in Raymond's journey toward self-discovery and self-acceptance. It is a journey that takes him from the tradition-bound South to the uninhibited world of gay Manhattan, to a thriving Seattle, where his legal career and his love-life seem destined for lasting success. Along the way, Raymond encounters a rich and diverse array of people, including the flamboyant, openly gay Kyle; the beautiful, loving Nicole, an aspiring actress; and Basil, a dashing and dangerous football player. Their stories join with Raymond's in a fast-paced chronicle that proves that love, friendship, and sexual desire frequently defy conventional expectations and explanations.

Harris's novels not only recount the changes and choices the individual characters confront, they evoke in telling detail the society in which those choices are made. From the importance of church and family to the consequences of biases based on skin color, sexual orientation, and gender, Harris uncovers the ties that bind and the issues that divide the African American community today.

1. What does Basil hope to prove by stripping in front of his therapist [p.16]? Why does he brag about leaving his date sitting in a restaurant? How are these two acts related? Are Basil's opinions about women and sex unusual or warped [pp. 30-31]? Do other men feel the same way, even if they hesitate to talk about it as openly as Basil does? Do you agree or disagree with Basil when he says, "I understand the power of sex. And once you understand something completely, you can control it" [p. 32]?

2. What techniques does Yancey use to ingratiate herself with Nicole? Is Nicole naïve in accepting Yancey's friendship so readily? Yancey declares that after Albert, her high-school boyfriend, betrayed her "Every brother I meet is paying for what Albert did" [p. 54]. Do you think that Albert's marriage to a white woman made the situation more painful for Yancey than it would have been had he chosen a black wife? How do her opinions of men compare to Basil's views of women?

3. Trent is concerned that he won't get an assignment he wants because the project leader is a black woman. Are his fears understandable? Why does he say "you know how we can sometimes be our worst critics" [p. 63]? Are there examples of this tendency in the book? Have you encountered situations in which blacks are overly critical of other blacks? Do other groups exhibit the same behavior? Why do you think this happens?

4. Raymond and Trent briefly discuss getting married. Do you think that gay marriages should be legal? Why or why not?

5. After they meet an old friend of Nicole's at a restaurant, Nicole and Yancey talk about the way women compete with one another [p. 84]. How do their reactions to the "bad seeds" they've encountered differ? Is Nicole too forgiving of the actress the rest of the cast called "Evilene"? Was Yancey's "trick" for defeating her rival justifiable or unethical? How important is it for black women to stick together, particularly when it might entail sacrificing their own goals?

6. The NAACP withdraws its support of Raymond's nomination to back a candidate who "understands the needs of our community, especially on issues regarding the survival of the African-American family" [p. 95]. Is a gay candidate like Raymond incapable of understanding and supporting the basic values of the community? Can his partnership with Trent be defined as a "family"?

7. In what ways does Raymond Sr.'s objection to Kirby's involvement with an Asian woman parallel his discomfort with Raymond and Trent's relationship? Do members of minority groups have a moral obligation to date and/or marry within the group? Do interracial or interreligious marriages necessarily undermine individual cultures?

8. Why is Raymond so reluctant to confront Trent when he learns of his arrest? By betraying his promise to Trent to be open and honest, is Raymond betraying himself as well? What is the significance of the fight he has with his father about the situation? Is his father only concerned with Raymond's political future? Why does Raymond Sr. say "Stop letting people fuck you over, especially black folks"[p. 161]? What does this indicate about his own biases and beliefs?

9. When Raymond and Trent finally discuss Trent's infidelities, whose side are you on? Does Trent take their relationship too casually or is Raymond demanding a level of perfection that is impossible to achieve? Are the conflicts between Nicole and Jared more clear cut [pp. 284-285]? Do they handle them better than Raymond and Trent? Why is Nicole so ambivalent about starting a family? In addition to her reluctance to give up her career, what other factors contribute to her hesitations?

10. When she tells Raymond about his father's affair early in their marriage, Raymond's mother says "People sometimes do hurtful things just to get the other person's attention" [p. 291]. How does this relate to the events in the book? Are Basil's and Yancey's schemes, for example, mean-spirited and evil? Or are they desperate attempts to generate the attention and love that is missing from their lives?

For discussion of the Invisible Life Trilogy:

1. The title Harris chose for his first book—and eventually for the entire trilogy—echoes Ralph Ellison's Invisible Man, a seminal work in African-American literature. How does the world Ellison describes compare to Harris's description of the African-American community today? Are the protagonists similar in any way? Does "Invisible Life" only refer to the lives of the gay and bisexual men, or does it encompass aspects of the women's lives as well?

2. Discuss the views of homosexuality you have encountered in your own life. Are most people more willing to accept racial and religious differences than sexual differences? Do gay black men and women suffer greater doubts and more guilt than gay whites? Why or why not? What cultural factors influence the way people feel and talk about sexuality? Did the novels change your own feelings about the gay community?

3. The characters' relationships with their parents is an important theme in the trilogy. What impact does her mother's criticism have on the choices Nicole makes and her image of herself? Is Basil's hostility toward women a result of being raised by his father? Do you think his father genuinely loved him? Why didn't his father succeed in teaching Basil "to be a man and to try and do what's right"? Is Peaches a believable character or is Harris's portrait of her too idealistic? Are you more sympathetic to Yancey when you find out how her mother treated her as a child?

4. Discuss the differences between the views on race, religion, and gender expressed by the two generations. How do they reflect the society in which each generation grew up? Do you think Americans are becoming more tolerant or that age-old prejudices still thrive?


On Wednesday, March 17th, barnesandnoble.com welcomed E. Lynn Harris to discuss ABIDE WITH ME.

Moderator: Welcome, E. Lynn Harris! Thank you for taking the time to join us online this evening to discuss ABIDE WITH ME. How are you doing tonight?

E Lynn Harris: I am doing great.

Wanda from New York City: Can somebody pick this book up and start reading, or would they be lost? Also, which book do you recommend a new E. Lynn Harris fan start with?

E Lynn Harris: This novel does stand alone even though it is the end of a trilogy, but if you are to start out of sequence I would recommend IF THIS WORLD WERE MINE.

Thumper from African-American Literature Bookclub: Hello. I love your books. I do have a question about Basil. My friends and I have noticed that Basil is in all of your books. At first, we couldn't stand him, but our opinion of him changed by the end of IF THIS WORLD WERE MINE. Our opinion went from, "I can't stand him" to "He's half-way human after all." Will Basil ever be the main feature in a novel of his own?

E Lynn Harris: The next novel.

pac87@aol.com from xx: How close to Raymond Tyler do you think E. Lynn Harris is, and vice versa?

E Lynn Harris: Well, in the first two books I depended on him a lot in terms of telling me what to do and telling me to use a lot of my own life. But with this novel I told it from a third-person point of view because I think Raymond, like E. Lynn, will tell readers what they want to know. By telling it from the third person I had some separation, therefore I told it from that point of view.

Beverly from New Jersey: I am an avid reader and have enjoyed your books. As a mother who tries to watch expenses I tend to borrow books from the library rather than buying. Am I hurting the industry for our wonderful black authors out there trying to make it? Thanks.

E Lynn Harris: Of course, we wish that people would purchase the books, not only out of selfish reasons but also because by owning books you enjoy one of the treasures in life. I have an extensive library of fiction and nonfiction. I love buying books, and even when things were tight it was still one of my joys. We are glad you are reading, but we also wish you had a personal library like a lot of the other fans.

Sheila from Spring Valley, NY: How has your writing style changed from your very first book to the very last book you've written? And what authors would you say you've most shadowed?

E Lynn Harris: Good question. I am a little bit more secure in my writing now. I am more secure in my storytelling style. I really thought my first novel was a fluke, but my editors and writing experts told me to hold on to my unique voice, and even though I wanted each succeeding novel to be technically different, I was told to keep my voice. I don't really shadow any writer, but I guess my style is very similar to Terry McMillan's -- we tell stories as if we were telling the story one-on-one.

Reginald from Home: Will there be any movies made from your books? A miniseries, perhaps?

E Lynn Harris: INVISIBLE LIFE and JUST AS I AM are both in preproduction right now, and INVISIBLE LIFE will be an off-Broadway play.

Crystal from Reston, VA: Do you base many of your recurring characters on any of your friends and acquaintances? Are Peaches, John, Raymond taken from E. Lynn Harris's life?

E Lynn Harris: Most of my characters come from characters that I meet very briefly; then I imagine how they would be. I base these characters on one or two meetings -- then my imagination takes over.

Monique from Fayetteville, AR: I read somewhere that you are a big University of Arkansas fan. Is that true? What do you think of Nolan's past year? Also, who do you like in the Final Four? Thanks! I can't wait to read ABIDE WITH ME....

E Lynn Harris: I was a Razorback cheerleader, and I just got back from the SEC tournament. I live and breathe the Hogs, and Nolan had a good year, but I would have liked to see us go farther in the tournament. And I am saying Kentucky and Duke in the finals.

Paul from Pcrichton@yahoo.com: What advice would you give to aspiring authors? I know you had a rather nontraditional route to getting published....

E Lynn Harris: Stop calling yourself "aspiring" -- it is just "writer." I did have a nontraditional route in that I self-published my first novel, which a lot of people say is a kiss of death, but it turned out to be a godsend for me.

Timmothy McCann from Florida: I did not read your first two books of the trilogy, but I am reading ABIDE WITH ME, and so far it is incredible. You have a way of writing that makes it feel as if you are actually listening to a conversation. What do you do to make your dialogue seem so realistic?

E Lynn Harris: I listen to the ear -- when I am writing I can actually hear the voices. As a writer you just start to hear the voices -- people walking down the street and conversations.

Yolanda from Shreveport, LA: Mr. Harris, I am so excited to have this opportunity! What does E. Lynn Harris read when he's not writing? Although there might be a rather long list, what about someone at present? I like to see who authors admire.

E Lynn Harris: THE HARRIS MEN by R. M. Johnson -- it is not out yet. WAITING IN VAIN by Colin Channer. STIGMATA by Phyllis Perry.

Tyra Russell from Mobile, AL: I love your books, they seem so true-to-life. My question is, What exactly is the Better Days Foundation?

E Lynn Harris: Better Days Foundation is an organization to help emerging writers. I am going to do this by grant, and I also want to bring authors to cities like Mobile -- current African-American writers who don't get to visit nonreading cities. I want to bring readers and writers closer together for dialogue. The name came from the idea that when writers start out it is so hard for them, and I want people to know there are better days ahead. You can support Better Days by buying hardcover copies of INVISIBLE LIFE -- the proceeds go to the foundation.

Shakira from Shak@aol.com: Do you think the city of Atlanta is still the "hot" place for young African-American professionals that it was a couple years ago? Do you still live in Atlanta?

E Lynn Harris: I think Atlanta definitely is, but I live in Chicago now, and I still have family in Atlanta -- it is a great place for young black professionals to start.

Hilly from New Orleans, LA: Who are those people on the jacket? Are they supposed to be Raymond, John, and Trent? Also, don't you think it is sometimes better for the reader to come up with an image in their heads, forcing them to use their imagination?

E Lynn Harris: Those are just people. Good point: They can be whoever you want them to be. I just want handsome men and women on the cover of my book.

Patrice from Sadie's Corner: Hello, E. Lynn Harris. What does the E. stand for? Also, I would like to know if you will miss this cast of characters now that the series has ended. Will you?

E Lynn Harris: The E. will be revealed in a memoir, and yes, I will miss them; it is kind of sad letting them go but they are gone.

Jeanette from Philadelphia, PA: I am curious to know a little bit about how you come up with your characters and stories? For instance, did you know what ABIDE WITH ME was going to be about even before you started writing, or do you find your writing more just kind of takes off on it's own?

E Lynn Harris: The writing takes off on its own. I usually start with the names and then take it where the characters lead me. Since I knew these characters I knew their background, but I didn't know what was happening with them now.

Nicki Hand from Greenville, SC: Of all the character you have created, which is your favorite?

E Lynn Harris: I have several that I like -- Raymond, and even though he is complex I love Basil. I love Nicole, and even though I don't like her I loved creating the character of Yancey in the new novel.

Fancy from Florida: I believe Terry McMillan also self-published her first book, and that also turned out terrific. Maybe that's the way to go when other people don't have the confidence you have in yourself. Comment, please.

E Lynn Harris: You have to have confidence in yourself, but Terry's first book was published by a major publisher. But she went out on her own to promote her book. I learned from Terry that promotion is very important.

Steve from Bellingham, WA: What, to E. Lynn Harris, are the most important elements to good fiction?

E Lynn Harris: Great characters, fast-moving plot, and humor.

Neena from Columbia, SC: What is your favorite part of being a successful, well-read author? Do you have a favorite part?

E Lynn Harris: The way people respond to you; it is really heartwarming.

Tommy from Virginia Beach, VA: Will you ever make it to Virginia for a book signing?

E Lynn Harris: Actually, it just missed being on the tour. I am getting an award in Richmond this Saturday for my contributions to African-American writers, though I will not be able to accept it because I will be at a book signing in Fayetteville. I have recently spoken at Virginia Tech, and I did signings at Hampton and Richmond.

Jessie from Chicago, IL: Hello, E. Lynn Harris. I read on the back of the book that you are writing a memoir. When can we expect to see it at barnesandnoble.com? Are you finding it more difficult to write than a novel?

E Lynn Harris: Yeah, it is more difficult. Right now it is due in August 2000. I keep rewriting it, trying to figure out what to tell and what not to tell. I've had a very interesting life.

ML from St. Louis, MO: First you made all your readers hate Basil, and then in your last novel, in so many words, you explained why Basil is the way he is by letting the readers see what kind of family life Basil had. In what direction will you take Basil in your next novel? Kyle was one of my favorite characters. I know you can't bring Kyle back, but will you ever bring Peaches or any of his family members back?

E Lynn Harris: Peaches is in the new novel, and I am learning Basil as I write him, and as I learn more about him as a character I hope readers will become more accepting of him. But it still doesn't explain or excuse some of his behavior.

Elke from New York: I know it's early, but what are your plans for New Year's Eve, 1999? Have you made any plans to end the '90s with?

E Lynn Harris: I want to be writing in my new home. I am staying off the road.

Donna from Atlanta, GA: Are you touring for this book? Where?

E Lynn Harris: Yeah, I will be in Atlanta the last week of the tour. Check my web site -- www.elynnharris.com -- to get more specifics.

Megan from New York City: If the Y2K bug wreaks its havoc, what books do you think you'd take along to read by the light of your home generator?

E Lynn Harris: I KNOW WHY THE CAGED BIRD SINGS by Maya Angelou, GIOVANNI'S ROOM by James Baldwin, and INVISIBLE MAN by Ralph Ellison.

Eric from St. Petersburg, FL: Can you give us a preview of your new book in context of the characters being straight, gay, etc.

E Lynn Harris: A combination of both. I always try to write novels indicative of the world I live in, which includes gay/straight, black/white -- that is what I love about my world: It includes a little bit about everybody.

Lonnie from Boston, MA: As an African-American writer, how difficult did you find it to break out of that classification to be just a writer? I love your books.

E Lynn Harris: Unfortunately, Lonnie, we live in a world where people are more comfortable with labels then individuals. I have gone through two categories, as I was once categorized as a gay writer and as a black writer. At some point in my career I hope I will be just seen as a writer. I am moving up, I guess.

Ed from New Jersey: We need more specifics. Who's working on the movie version of INVISIBLE LIFE? When will it be out, etc. We're big fans!

E Lynn Harris: It is still under wraps. Please be patient. But it is in good hands.

Yolanda from Shreveport, LA: Mr. Harris, it's interesting to hear that some cities are, as you called it, "nonreading cities." Is that why we seem to never have any notable black authors in my area? By chance, are you coming anywhere near Shreveport?

E Lynn Harris: I just got a call from a store in New Orleans that helped me out when I just started, and they just opened a store in Shreveport, and even though they didn't make the tour, I will go out on my own. And when I say nonreading cities, it means cities that don't get good crowds, not cities where people don't read. I think they ignore these cities unjustly. On this tour I am doing Savannah because they said it would be an event, not just a book signing. I try to encourage my publisher to send me to nontraditional cities.

LJC from Florida: It was mentioned to myself and a few others that you, along with some other African Americans, will be doing a cruise in the near future. Can you give a little information on the matter?

E Lynn Harris: I don't know the dates, but I am doing it. I am not doing the whole tour, but I am doing part of it, and I am looking forward to it.

Moderator: We've enjoyed hosting you this evening, E. Lynn Harris, and hope you'll come back and let us all know what the E. stands for! Do you have any parting words for your online fans?

E Lynn Harris: I am most appreciative to my fan base. You guys have made me a literary superstar by telling your mothers, brothers, sisters, husbands, boyfriends, and girlfriends about my novels. I appreciate it from the bottom of my heart, and I hope that you will leave the session and call a friend to tell them that the book is in stores, online, it is everywhere. I didn't depend on the critics, I depend on you, and I am thankful.

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This book disapppointed me. After reading the last book If This World Were Mine, I was just waiting for a similar high quality book and this was not it.After making it big, E Lynn Harris decided to water down his writing or rush it. It was not polished and the story telling was weak. This book was not provocative or innovative. It seems that fame and success will lead to the downfall of such a revealing storyline such as Down-Low Syndrome
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Sir_Anthony More than 1 year ago
Another good book in the trilogy, but not my favorite. Like some of Harris' other books, I like it when he writes from each character's point of view so we know what they are thinking. But like his other novels, it was hard to put this book down!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I would say this is not some Harris best pieces, but it kept me wanting to read all the way to the end. I was pretty up set that Yancy really didnt get what she deserve. So full of drama and passion.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Abide with me had me on the edge of my seat from start to finish. I couldn't go anywhere without it. I'd reccomend this book to anyone.
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I loved reading about Raymond Tyler and his lover, Trent, and their lives in Seattle. Terrifically written. Another hit!
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book is the bomb. You need to read it ASAP. When you start reading Abide With Me you aren't going to be able to stop. It seems so real. You feel like you are there with the characters
Guest More than 1 year ago
I loved this book. I think it was a wonderful ending to a intriguing series. I can't recommend this book enough.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Abide with me was an excellent ending to the Invisible Life Trilogy. It has an excellent story line and amazing, seemingly real characters. Talk about a 'page turner' book. Keep up the great work E.Lynn Harris!
Guest More than 1 year ago
E Lynn Harris has done it again!! I enjoyed Abide with Me to the Max!!! I am now enthralled in 'Not a Day Goes By' Keep up the good work- E Lynn!!! A Fan Forever
Guest More than 1 year ago
I have read the whole series and I have nothing but great things to say about all of Mr. Harris's books. He is a great writer, it is average reading and the stories are so real and even if you think no one else is going through the same things you are, you can find yourself in atleast one of the characters. Thank you Mr. Harris for providing me with hours of great reading!!!!
Guest More than 1 year ago
Another book by E. Lynn Harris that keeps you wanting more. This book is truly hot.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I love E Lynn Harris. This book was GREAT. He is an outstanding writer. You've got to read this!!!!!!!!!!
Guest More than 1 year ago
I have read all of E. Lynn Harris' books and all of them are very entertaining. You must have an open mind to enjoy the books.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I love this man!!! E. Lynn makes the characters jump off the pages..They seem more like old friends that you need to catch up with. The characters come to life and the situations that they are in are just mind blowin.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I have enjoyed this whole series by E. Harris I finished all 3 novels in a short time This author knows how to keep you in the bookstore Awesome read I'd recommend starting w/the 1st novel Just As I am to follow this wonderful masterpiece.
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I have enjoyed all of Harris' books, but this one is not the best. I liken them to a sweet/fruity wine cooler. Light, enjoyable but not to be taken that seriously. However, I will probably read every book that Mr. Harris writes.
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ABIDE WITH ME was the book that I picked up without caring was the price was and bought it on the spot. It had been worth every penny I put into it. This is, without a doubt, an excellent ending to the INVISIBLE SERIES. When the story continues with Basil and Yancy in NOT A DAY GOES BY, consider it another purchase!
Guest More than 1 year ago
This book is amazing. This book is a must read for all....over 21. Whenever I pick up one of his books, it's none stop til the end. I have read all of his books, go out and buy you copies now.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I cannot convey in words how much joy I got out of reading this book. The strong characters and complex issues have been woven together quite well. Thank you Mr Harris for giving me a selection of books that I will keep in my library forever.