The Conflict Resolution Training Program: Participant's Workbook / Edition 1 available in Paperback
The Conflict Resolution Training Program Participant's Workbook offers both new and seasoned negotiators, mediators, and arbitrators a step-by-step approach for learning dispute resolution techniques. This hands-on workbook is filled with a variety of exercises, activities, worksheets, role plays, and other interactive techniques that are readily accessible for learning the skills needed to resolve conflicts. Trainers and participants can select the sections of the flexible program that best meet their specific objectives and goals.
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About the Author
Prudence Bowman Kestner is president of the Institute for Organizational and Personal Transformation, Inc. (I-OPT). Formerly she was the associate director of the American Bar Association's Section on Dispute Resolution (ABA/ADR). Larry Ray is an attorney in private practice. He served as executive director for the National Association for Community Mediation (NAFCM) and for the American Bar Association (ABA) Section of Dispute Resolution. He provides training for the American Management Association (AMA), the Maryland State Highway Administration, and the Graduate School, USDA. He arbitrates for the National Association of Securities Dealers (NASD) and United States Arbitration and Mediation (USAM). He mediates for the World Banks Group, the United States Postal Service, the National Archives, and the U.S. Office of Special Counsel. He serves as a senior instructor for the George Washington University School of Law and Keller Graduate School. Kestner and Ray have conducted trainings in communication, conflict management, mediation, and negotiation.
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The Conflict Resolution Training ProgramLeader's Manual
By Prudence B. Kestner Larry Ray
John Wiley & SonsISBN: 0-7879-6077-2
Chapter OnePart 1 Background for Leaders
Creating a Training Plan
IT IS VERY IMPORTANT to create a detailed plan for any training session, no matter what its length. Such a plan generally includes the following factors:
The purpose. To give trainees a clearer understanding of conflict-resolving communication, negotiation, and/or mediation processes, the stages of each, and the skills appropriate to each stage. (Most of the skills presented in this program are useful in all of these applications.)
The group size. The optimum size of a training group depends on several factors, including the physical site, the furnishings and other materials needed, the complexity of the material to be presented, the number of trainers available, the experience levels of the trainers, and the degrees of emotion likely to be generated by the session. For the training presented in this program, with one trainer, a group of twenty-five or fewer participants is best. This allows for careful monitoring of practice sessions in mediation, negotiation, and communication. The skills of listening, questioning, and observing body language often are practiced in such sessions.
If there is a co-trainer or an assistant who has been trained in past sessions to help monitor the new trainees, the group can be larger. With twotrainers, we suggest no more than forty participants. We have trained up to seventy participants with the help of eight assistants whose job was to observe the trainees and help them to practice appropriate skills.
The goals. Learning goals should be stated in achievable, observable, behavioral terms. This allows you to monitor progress as the training proceeds and to assess the effectiveness of the training afterward. Typical goals for this training are
To provide an intellectual and experiential understanding of conflict-resolving communication, negotiation, mediation, and/or arbitration processes and the stages of each To provide appropriate skills training and feedback to the participants
To help participants to understand the similarities and differences in the processes
The norms. Principles of adult education involve encouraging learning by doing and building on the knowledge and skills that participants bring to the group as well as teaching new attitudes, knowledge, and skills. (More detail about this is provided in Part II.) To enable participants to "open up" and be receptive to the training, an environment must be created that encourages risk taking and openness without fear of ridicule. It is important to establish basic training norms at the beginning of the session; to summarize, these include
Participants' taking responsibility for their own learning
An atmosphere of experimentation and risk taking
Mutual support and encouragement without ridicule
Useful, behaviorally specific feedback
Participant involvement in discussions of what happened, generalizations to what tends to happen, implications of insights, and applications to the "real world"
Other practical norms may include: arriving on time for all sessions and after breaks and meals, not smoking or using alcohol or other drugs during the event, not disclosing what other participants say or do to persons outside the training event, turning off cell phones and pagers while in the training room, and so on.
The methodology. To provide the latest theoretical and practical training methodologies in communication, negotiation, and mediation. To combine lectures with worksheets, instruments, and activities (including exercises and role plays), so that participants learn through participation. The focus is on process, not on procedures. The training is a method of teaching process utilizing the four Ds:
Activities are Described and Demonstrated
Skills are Developed
Experiences are Discussed
The training sequence. When planning a training event, one must select activities, discussion topics, and other interventions that, in a sequence designed to aid learning, will meet the training objectives of the event. Typical introductory activities include
Welcoming the participants and introducing oneself and any co-trainers
Introducing the training event (why the participants are there, the learning goals, possible benefits of completing the training ) and giving an overview of the event
Taking attendance, correcting the roster, describing the facilities available, and describing facility regulations
Establishing training norms
Having the participants introduce themselves
Clarifying participant expectations
Presenting a brief discussion of adult education and the emphasis on practice
Presenting the terminology, background, and benefits of conflict-resolution communication, negotiation, mediation, and/or arbitration
Discussing conflict and conflict management, especially in regard to communication skills
Presenting an outline of the basic steps of the process being taught and a description of the skills involved
The participants are then asked to engage in a variety of activities designed to help them understand the skills involved and the likely consequences of various behaviors. Modeling of the desired behavioral skills allows them to see, hear, and better remember what they are being asked to learn. Discussion helps them to link what they are hearing, seeing, and doing to general principles and to apply these to real-life situations. Practice sessions enable them to hone their skills in a relatively safe environment and to receive helpful feedback.
The activities and discussion topics presented in this manual will help you to plan a training event that is appropriate for your group of participants. It is a good idea to plan for some variation in the sequence, to allow for differences in participant groups, their styles of learning, and their skill levels.
The time. The minimum length of a training event in conflict resolution is three hours. The purpose of a three-hour event generally is to stimulate the participants to pursue the topic more deeply and to suggest reasons for further training. Certainly, we want each participant to walk away with something that clicks as useful, but we also hope that opening the door to this knowledge will encourage more in-depth training at a later date.
In even such a short program, there must be modeling of desired skills and an opportunity for participants to practice a few skills themselves. For example, in a session on mediation, a brief, mock mediation would be conducted and discussed so that lessons about processes and skills could be presented. Participants then could be separated into triads to practice mediation skills.
In some states, a twenty-five-hour session is the minimum required for certification. This allows time for in-depth learning and for practice of processes and skills. This is a typical time schedule. In addition, our contract often specifies three three-hour follow-up sessions. This provides people who have applied their new skills in the real world a setting in which practical questions about particular problems or situations may be addressed.
A forty-hour training program has distinct advantages for the trainees. It provides time for more comprehensive learning, with more practice in processes and skills, and it affords opportunities for deeper analysis of the results of practice. Each session in such a program should be two and a half to three hours long, with built-in breaks of approximately twenty minutes each. There should be at least one morning break and one afternoon break. If lunch or dinner will be part of the day, the times to travel to, accomplish, and return from these must be factored in.
In a college setting, each session is usually one hour and fifty minutes, with one ten-minute break.
A variation that we have used in court settings is that the court administrator conducts a three-hour preliminary session with the participants a week or two before the skills training. Then we conduct two eight-hour sessions on Thursday and Friday and a five-hour session on Saturday. There are two homework assignments: the first is to fill out the conflict instrument in Part IV; the other is for the participants to write about disputes they might like to mediate or negotiate.
The space. The experiential training described in this book requires a larger space than does schoolroom-style instruction. One-fourth to onehalf of a ballroom is the typical size requirement, depending on how many participants are being trained. Chairs are placed in a semicircle (variations are described below). If the chairs are arranged in one of the oval configurations, there are no tables for the participants; they use their workbooks as writing surfaces.
Space to break out into small groups also is required. It is preferable for breakout spaces to be outside the training room so that each subgroup is not distracted by other subgroups. Such spaces may be adjoining rooms or otherwise-unused hallways.
The equipment. A basic room setup requires name tags for the participants, sign-in sheets, pens or pencils and blank paper for the participants, chairs and tables or other writing surfaces for the participants, additional chairs and tables for breakout groups (subgroups), a display table for learning materials, a table for water and other refreshments, a round table with three chairs to be used for demonstrations, and evaluation forms.
Audiovisual equipment and other means of presenting the learning topics also are required. The basics include two to three newsprint charts on easels; and/or an overhead projector, screen, transparencies, and transparency marking pens; and/or a video recorder and large television screen. If you are using computer-generated images, you will need a display monitor.
The refreshments. Most training venues provide the following:
Morning: coffee (including decaf), hot water and tea bags (including decaf), juice, and muffins or breakfast pastries
Throughout the day: iced water, coffee, hot water, and tea bags. Juice and/or sodas are optional, as are cookies at the afternoon break
Participants usually have lunch at nearby restaurants that provide quick service. If no such lunch facilities are available, the trainers may provide box lunches or smorgasbord sandwich fixings.
The physical setup. Whenever possible, create an informal, flexible environment for training, in which movement is encouraged. The chairs may be set in an oval or a half-moon configuration, in either single or double rows, so that there can be flexibility in the ways in which people participate. If that is not possible, arrange the chairs in rows that are like the feathers on the end of a bow. If you are required to have schoolroom-style tables, arrange them at angles from the place where the trainer will be standing while lecturing. If the participant group is small, you may arrange the seating in a circle or open square.
The handouts table and the refreshments table are placed in the back of the room to avoid having them be distractions during the sessions. The round table and three chairs to be used for demonstrations are placed where they can be seen by all participants-often in the "front" of the room.
The viewing screen (for overhead transparencies) or television or display monitor should be placed where all participants can see it easily. This usually is the "front" of the room. We also use several newsprint charts, markers, and easels throughout the training. With these, you can record lecture or discussion points. With masking tape, you can post these, as well as sheets that are prepared in advance, on the walls around the room. These can be changed during the different phases of the training.
Post the training plan or agenda on a wall in the training room. We do not recommend putting times by each segment; we believe that leaving the times open encourages adaptability and creates the opportunity to change the timing, based on observations during introductory activities and feedback from the participants. Some trainers need to set times for all activities in their plans. Some only list times for breaks and lunch. If the plan calls for homework, that should be listed.
You also may want to create some posters to hang in the training room before the participants enter and as the sessions proceed. On a newsprint chart or overhead transparency, we greet the participants as they enter the training room with these or similar words:
Welcome to the World of Negotiation/Mediation/Arbitration/Communication
We use the following phrases for the first phase of the training, and you may want to make posters of them.
If Your Only Tool Is a Hammer, Everything Looks Like a Nail Flexibility 50-50 Creativity Mutually Agreeable Outcome
The Cost of Conflict Is Greater Than the Price of Peace Describe Demonstrate Develop Discuss
Of course, anything posted on a wall can also be presented by means of an overhead transparency or computerized PowerPoint slide.
Sample Training Plan
This sample training plan is designed to help you plan and implement the lessons described in this book. The complete program contains more material than can fit into a twenty-five-hour or even a forty-hour program, so you will need to choose what you want to include based on your goals and objectives. You may want to tailor your agenda as needed for training in specific areas, such as communication, mediation, negotiation, or arbitration.
The sample plan is designed for twenty hours, broken into thirteen one-and-a-half-hour sessions and a half-hour wrap-up session. The training is scheduled over three days and includes two homework assignments. The timing is approximate, with times for giving lectures, leading activities, and filling out worksheets included in parentheses to help you decide what to use. Recommended breaks can be fifteen minutes or full lunch hours, depending on how the lessons are scheduled. Extra breaks should be scheduled before and after role-play practice.
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Table of Contents
Introductory Phase 4
Principles of Adult Learning 4
Four Elements of the Conflict-Resolution Process 5
Feedback Versus Criticism 6
What's Your Headline? Worksheet 9
Extended Interview Worksheet 10
Lesson: The Dispute-Resolution Continuum 11
Definitions of Dispute-Resolution Processes 11
The Multi-Option Dispute-Resolution Approach 16
Dispute-Resolution Worksheet 19
Dispute-Resolution Options Worksheet 20
Lesson: Conflict and Conflict Management 21
Crisis Worksheet 21
Conflict and Conflict Management 23
Personal Conflict-Management Styles Worksheet 27
Identifying Response Styles Worksheet 28
Adjusting One's Conflict-Management Style 29
Adjusting One's Conflict-Management Style Worksheet 31
Impasse Worksheet 34
Lesson: Conflict-Resolution Communication 35
Styles of Communication 35
Personal Communication Styles Worksheet 38
Adjusting One's Communication Style 39
An Overview of Communication 39
Empathic Responses Worksheet 45
Active-Listening Problem Sheet 46
Questioning Skills Worksheet 52
Types of Questions Worksheet 53
Questioning Skills Worksheet II 54
Filling Worksheet 56
Word Association and Target Words 57
Word Association Worksheet 60
Target Words Worksheet 61
Nonverbal Body Language Worksheet 62
Nonverbal Communication 72
Using "I" Statements Worksheet 75
Listening When Under Stress Worksheet 76
Communication Can Cause Conflict 77
Communication Can Cause Conflict Worksheet 78
Lesson: Values, Perspectives, and Power 79
Values Ratings Worksheet 80
Values and Beliefs Worksheet 81
Stereotyping Discussion Sheet 83
Stereotyping Worksheet 84
Perspectives Worksheet 86
Squares Worksheet 91
Power Worksheet 93
Lesson: Creativity 94
Sign Walkers Worksheet 96
Art in Public Places Worksheet 97
The Water Tower Worksheet 98
The City Sign Worksheet 99
Lesson: Consensus 100
An Overview of Consensus 100
Consensus Worksheet 101
Lesson: Negotiation 103
Positions and Issues 103
Questioning Skills Relevant to the Stages of Negotiation 104
Negotiation Observation Form 106
Lesson: Mediation 107
Mediation Versus Other Dispute-Resolution Processes 107
Disputes That Are Best Suited for Mediation 108
Attributes of Successful Mediators 108
Types of Mediation 113
Lesson: Arbitration 115
Arbitration Versus Negotiation and Mediation 115
Lesson: Role Plays 118
Appendix I The Dispute-Resolution Contractual Clause 154
Appendix II Sample Evaluation Form 156
Appendix III Sample Arbitration Decision Form 157
About the Authors 159