Grieving the Loss of a Loved One: A Devotional of Hope

Grieving the Loss of a Loved One: A Devotional of Hope

by Kathe Wunnenberg


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Death is an inevitable and constant part of life, yet those who grieve often feel misunderstood and alone in their journey, says Kathe Wunnenberg, author of Grieving the Loss of a Loved One. This compassionate book acts as a daily devotional companion to hurting people. Designed for adult readers of all ages and stages in the grieving process, it is sensitively written by an author who suffered three miscarriages and the death of an infant son. She knows from firsthand experience that there are no easy answers for those who mourn. Sixty devotions cover the many stages of grieving, including readings for holidays, birthdays, and special occasions, when grief can be particularly painful. Readers will walk away from the short thematic devotions and feel validated, connected to someone who knows how they truly feel, and with renewed hope in God. Friends and family members who sincerely want to help the grieving can give this book as a meaningful, beneficial expression of their love and concern.

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ISBN-13: 9780310227786
Publisher: Zondervan
Publication date: 02/01/2000
Pages: 240
Sales rank: 515,365
Product dimensions: 6.25(w) x 8.38(h) x 0.88(d)
Age Range: 18 Years

About the Author

Kathe Wunnenberg is the founder and president of Hopelifters Unlimited. She is a speaker, writer, leader, and connector known for her ability to offer creative solutions for real life problems. The author of Grieving the Loss of a Loved One and Grieving the Child I Never Knew, Kathe lives in Phoenix, Arizona, with her family.

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Grieving the Loss of a Loved One

By Kathe Wunnenberg


Copyright © 2000 Kathe Wunnenberg
All right reserved.

ISBN: 978-0-310-22778-6

Chapter One

Section 1 Denying Your Journey Through Denial

Denying: to declare untrue, to disclaim connection with or responsibility for, to refuse to accept.

God never comes through the door that I hold open for Him, But always knocks at the one place which I have walled up with concrete. But if I do not let Him in there, He turns away altogether. Helmut Thielicke

It's a funny thing about grief-handling it efficiently doesn't make it go away. Author Unknown

How do I manage a difficulty? Well, at first I try to walk past it. If that does not help, I try to climb over it; and when I cannot climb over it, to crawl underneath. And when that is not possible, I go straight through-God and me. Corrie ten Boom Clippings From My Notebook

Devotion 1 Journey Through the Fog to Reality

You can't heal a wound by saying it's not there! Jeremiah 6:14, tlb





You may encounter some of these feelings when facing the reality of your loss. At times you may feel as if you're walking on a road through a dense fog, stumbling through the nothingness that surrounds you, groping for an escape yet finding none.

Getting fogged in was a common occurrence when we lived in Oregon. Most mornings I would peer out our family room window expecting to see fir trees and mountains, only to find they had vanished once again.

Whenever the fog rolled in, I felt out of control, thinking about airport delays and white-knuckle driving. Over time, though, I learned to cope with the eerie white vapor and to forge through it-sometimes with the help of my car's high beams. I realized the impairment was temporary, and that gave me hope to endure. By afternoon the fog would lift, and I could see clearly again.

That's how it is with grief. Our initial shock over a loved one's death may cause us to deny it or ignore it. We may feel lost, paralyzed, in limbo, somewhere between reality and a dream.

This can't be happening! you think.

But it is.

I don't want to face it!

But you have to.

Maybe not right this moment. That's okay. But if you want to journey through grief, you must look beyond the clouds created by denial and fears. With God's strength and in His timing, the fog will begin to clear, and you'll be able to see reality again. It may not be what you want to see, and it may look quite different than before, but it is a necessary part of your journey through grief.

How are you coping with your loss? When you look out the window of your circumstance today, what do you see? Are you in the fog, denying reality? Or is the fog beginning to clear to reveal a new landscape?

Lord, it's so hard to cope with what has happened. I don't want to believe my loved one is gone. I keep hoping I'll wake up and discover this is only a dream. I feel so unsure about where I am right now. I can't see what life should look like. Please help me through this part of the journey. You say that You will never leave me or forsake me and that You will be a lamp to my feet. Please be my headlights and lead me through this time of uncertainty and pain. Amen.

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My Personal Journey

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Table of Contents

Readings for Special Days or Needs
Your Journey Through Grief
Section 1: Denying
1. Journey Through the Fog to Reality
2. Out of the Gray Zone
3. Grief Mirage
4. Sailing to the Iceberg of Denial
5. Truth or Denial?
Section 2: Venting
6. Journey to the Volcano of Anger
7. Journey from Envy to Admiration
8. Journey to Still Water
9. Hidden Longings
10. Jetty of Calm
Section 3: Questioning
11. Wandering Through the Wilderness of “Why”
12. The Mystery of Death’s Timing
13. Stranded on “If Only” Island
14. Why Not Me?
15. From Tragedy to Triumph
Section 4: Bargaining
16. Journey to the Marketplace of Bargaining
17. Father Knows Best
18. God Delivered More Than I Bargained For
19. Let’s Make a Deal
20. Bargaining with Uncertainty About Your Loved One’s Eternal Future
Section 5: Crying
21. Facing the Flash Floods of Tears
22. Happy-Sad Tears
23. “Remembering” Tears
24. Others’ Tears
25. Growing Tears
Section 6: Surrendering
26. Journey into the Fire of Surrender
27. Running from God
28. Required Courses
29. On the Other Side of However
30. Receiving a Lift Is a Gift
Section 7: Accepting
31. Seated at the Table of Acceptance
32. New Clothes
33. Lighten Up!
34. A Tissue and a Candle
35. “I’ll Do It”
Section 8: Praising
36. The Pathway Through Pain
37. Mountain Mover
38. Pain Producing Praise
39. Deep Roots
40. Journey to the Schoolhouse of Praise
Section 9: Being
41. Being with the Shepherd
42. Being in the Darkness
43. Slow Down and Detour to the School of Being
44. Journey to the Cocoon of Being
45. Enjoy the Now
Section 10: Celebrating
46. Celebrate Your Framed Memories
47. The Memory Box
48. A Trophy to Remember
49. Remember, Yet Celebrate!
50. Journey from Winter to Springtime
Section 11: Relating
51. Landscaping Loss into Your Life
52. Grief Mentor
53. Connecting Through Loss
54. Expect the Unexpected
55. Journey to the Pond of Relating
Section 12: Living
56. Journey to the Lighthouse of Living
57. Living with New Roles and Expectations
58. Being Thankful Is in Order
59. Living Beyond the “No”
60. Living in the Father’s Arms
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