How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You: The Fail-Proof, Fool-Proof Method

How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You: The Fail-Proof, Fool-Proof Method

by Tracy Cabot

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“A great piece of psychological wisdom.”—Playgirl

You’ve heard about it on Donahue and Today. You’ve read about it in Time and New Woman. Now you can discover how to:
• Find the love of your life
• Make the chemistry of love happen—at will
• Meet your love’s unconscious needs
• Establish instant trust and rapport
• Anchor your happiness with a magic touch
• Get him to say yes—so subtly, he won’t even know you’ve done it
• Keep love alive for a lifetime
Now the magic is here, ready to use—if you dare. Revolutionary new scientifically tested and proven techniques show you how some women seem to find true love effortlessly. Now you can too!
“It’s about time women began applying as much savvy to their personal lives as they do in their careers. Tracy Cabot’s book outlines intelligent and workable strategies.”—Ruth Halcomb, author of Women Making It

Product Details

ISBN-13: 9780307785565
Publisher: Random House Publishing Group
Publication date: 02/09/2011
Sold by: Random House
Format: NOOK Book
Pages: 256
Sales rank: 566,489
File size: 2 MB

About the Author

Tracy Cabot has a PhD in psychology. She has written five books on relationships: How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You; How to Keep a Man in Love with You Forever; Man Power: How to Win the Woman You Want; Marrying Later, Marrying Smarter; and Letting Go: How to Get Over a Broken Heart. She and her husband, Marshall Whitfield, own and operate the Relationship Research Center.

Read an Excerpt

Hardly anyone can resist an offer of more love. Getting love is the inspiration for the greatest works of art, for the most brilliant performances, for the world’s memorable poems and great literature. Behind our striving for success and recognition, for good looks, knowledge, intimacy and communication is a simple desire to be loved.
In a world of searching and insecurity, of singles’ bars and midlife crises, dating services and therapy groups, there is a desperate shortage of mature, mutual love. Millions of women, ready for a loving, committed relationship, are unable to find it. These women can now be helped.
How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You is for every woman who isn’t getting all the love she wants right now.
People who are in love communicate on a level that surpasses the mundane and reaches deep into the other person’s psyche. Lovers seem to read each other’s minds, to know ahead of time what the other one is thinking.
They have made contact with each other’s inner being. That’s what the “chemistry” is, and that’s what you are about to learn to create—at your will, with the man of your choice.
If you faithfully follow The Love Plan, you will never again have that desperate, helpless feeling of passively waiting for the “chemistry” of true love to randomly enter your life.
In order to make a man fall in love with you, you must first understand how he perceives his world. Then you can find the key to his heart. The Love Plan will show you the way.
How many times have you thought, “Oh, if only he knew how I felt! If only I could get through to him. Why can’t he appreciate me? Can’t he see how much I love him, how much I have to offer?” Now, by learning and using the insights and techniques embodied in The Love Plan, you can win the man of your dreams forever.
As you know, three of the basic human senses are: sight, sound, and feelings. New findings in psychology tell us that, for each person, one of these senses tends to dominate. A man tends to be either sight, sound, or feelings oriented. This is how he perceives his universe. It is the basis of his personality, his inner “Love Language,” and, if understood properly, the key to his heart.
The Love Plan will show you how to find out your man’s secret Love Language. You will discover whether he’s a “seeing,” “hearing,” or “feeling” type. You will learn to talk to him in the special words he’ll immediately relate to. You will act in ways that rivet his attention on you. You will make him feel as if you are his soul mate. You alone will truly understand him. Even the most elusive lover will be irresistibly under your spell.
You will sense his inner pleasures and pains. Like the great lovers of history, you’ll know the perfect words to say. You’ll have the faultless timing, the undeniable allure of really understanding him and his universe. Then you can make his heart belong to you forever.
A very few people—often the most successful people—use these techniques unconsciously, automatically. Great trial lawyers use them to appeal to judges and juries. Million-dollar salesmen use them to appeal to clients. Famous therapists use them to help people. Now, for the first time, you can learn how to use these scientific psychological discoveries to bring True Love into your life.
When I first suggested this powerful Love Plan to make a man fall in love with you, a few women (and men too) felt it wouldn’t be fair. They felt that “making” someone fall in love with you would be manipulative, unromantic and cold. They felt it would be bypassing the “chemistry” and “magic” that love is supposed to be.
Yet these same women spend fortunes to color their hair and dress provocatively. They never go out without full makeup and a blow dry to make “less” look like “more.” You probably know many women who diet to starvation—even have plastic surgery to turn up their noses and unlid their eyes—all in hopes of finding lasting love.
These are the women who truly believe that physical subterfuge is an acceptable part of the “all’s fair in love” philosophy, while condemning strategies for better communication as dishonest. Of course, these are the same women who complain that men are unfeeling and don’t understand them.
Our culture (and our economy) programs us to believe that beauty and youth are the prime trading commodities for love. But beauty and youth have never guaranteed love. In fact, true love is just as often found by those who are not young and beautiful. Everyone needs love. That’s why The Love Plan is based on something everyone possesses—an inner ability to communicate.
Even though romantic love is supposed to be non-manipulative, free of game playing, nondevisive, and free flowing, we find many methods of pressuring and convincing those we love to love us back. From Helen Gurley Brown’s “Teddy Bear Tricks” in Sex and the Single Girl, to Marabel Morgan’s Joy of Womanhood, Xavier Hollander’s Happy Hooker, Alex Comfort’s Joy of Sex and More Joy, and in classics like Sex Without Guilt—even in Dr. Reuben’s Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Sex—we have learned some superficial ways to get more love.
Perhaps, says one, it’s okay to lie, sneak, and cheat just a little. Another says to dress up. Some others recommend exotic sex acts, and the classics tell us we shouldn’t feel guilty in bed. These days, any woman who’s so inclined can learn to perform sexually just by reading the popular magazines. Even Reader’s Digest tells us how to be good in bed.
Unfortunately, being good in bed is no guarantee of love, either. Even the most accomplished lover, surrounded by men, can find herself alone and yearning for a long-term, committed relationship. It’s time to discover the real ways to make someone fall in love with you, not the superficial ones.
Until now, the deeper psychological techniques of unconscious motivation described in The Love Plan have been the private and protected secrets of a select group of researchers, divulged only to an exclusive few who could afford to attend expensive weeklong seminars costing thousands of dollars.
These strategic communication abilities are far more powerful than the teddy bear tricks you tried in the past, more enticing than any seduction, more lasting and effective than the greatest sexual performance. It seems only fair that they be available to everyone. What better use could they find than to bring more love into people’s lives?
Combining these new communication strategies with well-known psychological techniques like “mirroring” and “anchoring,” any woman can make a man fall in love with her.
The Love Plan shows how. But first, The Love Plan shows you how to pick the right man and avoid all the wrong ones.

Customer Reviews

How to Make a Man Fall in Love with You 3.4 out of 5 based on 0 ratings. 44 reviews.
Guest More than 1 year ago
Her stuff is very insightful and I think I'll try some of the advice. I just wish the auther weren't so, 'Sex is vital to the relationship. Make love to him right away. And you should have ANY man you want.' She also fails to address that selfishly pulling a man out of a relationship that he's commited to for your own pleasure is not responsible.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I read this book 15 years ago and used some of the advice in it to make my husband fall in love with me. We have now been happily married for 14 years and have two children. It was a very powerful tool. Just make sure it is the right guy.
Guest More than 1 year ago
It was the title that caught my attention, and I wanted to know what there is to know that I didn't already know about capturing a man's interest and devotion. I admit, the title is embarrassing and definitely something I hide from public view. But the information and advice contained therein is very interesting and helpful. Takes some practice to exercise the suggestions more naturally but I find it makes a difference in the way men relate to what we're saying depending on how we say it and what we emphasize. Obviously, as with any relationship, it takes work. But any edge you can get is worth it, and this book provides that extra edge.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I really liked this book because it took the concept of dating to a whole other level. It's got a lot of great suggestions inside it and really spells out what to do in order to get him to fall in love with you. A definte read for any dating gal.
flaquitasexy More than 1 year ago
So far so good during the period of time that ive been reading this book How to get a man to fall in Love with you the Fail fool proof......... Ive tried some of the techniques and they have worked to a great point............. I trully recommend this book for those that really feel that they need a little push to obtain what they want......Purchased book online hey it pays to get what you really want and also to feel better once you get it without tryin much..........Just sit and enjoy the things that are as close to the palm of your hands............
Guest More than 1 year ago
Right - fail-proof and fool-proof? I wish. It's a good read, but let's face it, every guy and every situation is different. As self-help books go, it's interesting and has some good info -- but, dare I say, I tried it on 20 guys -- and only 19 fell in love with me. NOT! Still, it's good for the All-Girls-Must-Have-All-The-Dating-Books Collection.
Guest More than 1 year ago
This is a well researched and well written book on the complicated matter of getting to know each other and on some of the things that go wrong. It is well worth the time to read it...and reread it, whenever we forget and are in need of help!
Guest More than 1 year ago
After years of heartache and failed relationships, I picked this book up. I now feel empowered, like i've been given a weapon with which to mesmerize the entire male race. Then I met Robby. Using the tricks of the trade that this book taught me, Robby has now proposed after 3 weeks of dating and we're planning on tieing the know next month. I FINALLY GOT ME ONE! Not only did he get on one knee, but the genuine 2 carat rock on my finger symbolizes his heart that is now in my clenched fist. We'll see who runs OUR household!
goldenfiligree More than 1 year ago
the techniques in this book are the tactics of the game. its good as a refresher for newly singlr women, but if the normal jibe hasnt worked, dont pick this book up thinking 'oh they must have found something new here!' youll be disappointed. but if you like anecdotes about failures in love, scan through this.
Guest More than 1 year ago
I was down and out after a devestating divorce in the late 80's. After reading this book I finally began feeling I was in control of my emotions, and theirs!!! I used what I learned on several potential suiters. I even practiced on my best friend...It worked! We have now been married for 8 years. Some may say it's playing games. I feel it's just enough of the edge we woman need to be in control. I highly reccommend this method. By the way, it helps me every day in my profession, sales.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
The book works. It provides the reader with a working plan to develop an intimate relationship with a significant other. I used the plan on some unworthy "test" subjects and found them hard to get rid of. When it came time for me to use it on the man I deemed man of my dreams... it worked!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I hope this book helps me, cuz ive been with a boy for like four times and it never worked out and now we want to try again but we are both scared that its not going to work out again and that we will never be together ever again and so i need advice and need help figuring out how to stay together and im only 13 and so is he aand i need advice on how to stay together and not fight, cuz i hate that he gets jealous over nothing and he hates that im down on myself like i say im ugly and fat and he dont like that i dont tell him anything but he dont tell me anything either so plz help
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I need help adding friends on my nook. Please help me
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
That is te best singh EVER!!! It maens he proboly like likes you!!!
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I was put off by the author's tales of testing the waters sexually in this day and age as if it were safe physically and mentally. Too casual for me, maybe a bit old fashion, but i still believe "why buy the cow when the milk is free?" Women need to realize that we are special, but if we don't respect ourselves what makes us think that a man will? Some of her ideas make sense, but for the most part just be a lady, don't make this into a science project and make him whoo're worth it.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
I like my friend but we kinda just started talking but ive liked him for two years now. He knows but he wants to get to know me more. Is that a good or bad thing?
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This book is just teaching women how to play games with men. If you can't be yourself with someone and you don't relate , you cannot force it . Sorry, i still believe either you have the chemistry or you don't. This book is basically crap.
Anonymous More than 1 year ago
Really good book. There is a boy i like in homeroom and i have been trying to get him to notice me. Sometimes i will say something funny and he laughs but only then is when he sees me! I was just looking at books and i found this one. I read the first five chapters and followed the advice. Now i think he is starting to like me! He is even one of my nook? friends! <3
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In response to the girl with the dj etc. Well the same thing is happening to me right now :( So theres this guy and he isnt the finest guy out there but hes pretty cute to me! So we used txt last year and we were flirtin up a storm but he made so mad i didnt even want to txt him anymore so we have been distant since then. So we started talkin again this year and idk how to get him to like me again? So i checked out this book........... didnt help at all so someone if you have ANY advice or any book you could recommend plz tell me:)