A kingdom woman gives the devil as much reason to fear as a kingdom man. She lives confidently in the knowledge that Christ died and rose for her so that she can experience the significance of the destiny to which she has been called.In Kingdom Woman, Tony Evans and his daughter, Chrystal Evans Hurst, remind women of their calling from God to be free, delivered, healed, and hopeful. The authors bring insight that encourages women to correct distorted perceptions and understand who they really are in Christnever settling for less when connected with the One who gives them hope. All believers are covered by God’s covenant with Abraham. Evans and Hurst want women to know these rights and confidently claim and live by them. The new covenant offers more than a life of mediocrity. A kingdom woman is called and empowered to live a life of victory through Christ!
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About the Author
Dr. Tony Evans is one of the country's most respected leaders in evangelical circles. As a pastor, teacher, author and speaker, he serves the body of Christ through his unique ability to communicate complex theological truths through simple, yet profound, illustrations. While addressing the practical issues of today, Dr. Evans is known as a relevant expositor. New and veteran pastors alike regard him as a pastor of pastors and a father in the faith.
The first African-American to graduate with a doctoral degree from Dallas Theological Seminary (DTS), he served as an associate professor in DTS' Pastoral Ministries Department in the areas of evangelism, homiletics and black church studies. He continues to serve DTS on the Board of Incorporate Members. Dr. Evans holds the rare honor of serving as chaplain for the NBA's Dallas Mavericks over the last three decades, the longest standing NBA chaplaincy on record. He also serves as chaplain of the Dallas Cowboys.
Through his local church and national ministry Dr. Evans promotes a Kingdom agenda philosophy that teaches God's comprehensive rule over every sphere of life as demonstrated through the individual, family, church and society.
This philosophy connects biblical spirituality with social responsibility. Dr. Evans teaches that the church, not the government, is the best social service delivery system since it is closer to the needs of the people, offers the largest potential volunteer force, has facilities for outreach programs, and provides a moral and spiritual frame of reference for making right choices.
At the heart of this vision is the use of church and school partnerships to effect spiritual and social change in communities. Dr. Evans' church and school outreach philosophy has been attributed as a catalyst for former President George W. Bush's Faith Based Initiative, which was his first formal act of office. Dr. Evans seeks to train churches, schools and volunteers in this philosophy, as well as in the functional practicalities, through the National Church Adopt-A-School Initiative which is a ministry underneath the umbrella of The Urban Alternative.
Dr. Evans has served as the senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship for over 35 years, witnessing its growth from ten people in 1976 to now over 9,000 congregants with 100 plus ministries.
Dr. Evans also serves as president of The Urban Alternative, a national ministry that seeks to bring about spiritual renewal in America through the church. His daily radio broadcast, The Alternative with Dr. Tony Evans, can be heard on close to 1000 radio outlets throughout the United States and in more than 130 countries.
Dr. Evans has written numerous books and booklets including his legacy work, Oneness Embraced, as well as his vision work, The Kingdom Agenda. Some of his most recent books include Kingdom Man, Kingdom Woman, How Should Christians Vote, Marriage Matters, Between a Rock and a Hard Place and Victory in Spiritual Warfare.
Dr. Tony Evans is married to Lois, his wife and ministry partner of over 40 years. They are the proud parents of four children, all who serve in ministry: Chrystal Hurst, Priscilla Shirer, Anthony, and Jonathan as well as the proud grandparents of ten: Kariss, Jessica, Jackson, Jesse, III, Jerry, Jr., Kanaan, Jude, Joel, Kelsey, Jonathan II.
Dr. Evans has received many honors, including the Father of the Year award voted by the Dallas Father of the Year Committee and the Marian Pfister Anshutz Award for "dedication to protecting, encouraging, and strengthening the American family" from the Family Research Center
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EMBRACING YOUR PURPOSE, POWER, AND POSSIBILITIES
By Tony Evans, Chrystal Evans Hurst
Tyndale House Publishers, Inc.Copyright © 2013 Tony Evans and Chrystal Evans Hurst
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A Woman of Value
When a kingdom woman begins her day, heaven, earth, and hell take notice. When she nurtures and advises the man she loves, he can do little to resist her. When she offers care, comfort, and encouragement to her friends and relatives, they are able to go farther, faster, and in confidence because of her inspiration and reassurance. "Her children rise up and call her blessed" (Proverbs 31:28, ESV). Other women turn to her for wise counsel and a compassionate ear. Her church relies on her faithful service. She is a vital contributor to culture and a gatekeeper at her home to keep out the negative and promote the positive.
When we examine the history of the Christian faith, kingdom women (both married and single) are everywhere. Kingdom women throughout the Bible saved lives and nations. It was Jochebed who intervened on behalf of her son Moses (Exodus 2). Because of her watchful protection, Moses was later used as the deliverer of Israel (Exodus 3). It was Moses' wife, Zipporah, who saved Moses' life when God was going to punish him for his refusal to follow a simple command (Exodus 4:24–26). Esther's bravery gave the opportunity for the Jewish people to defend themselves from what would have been utter annihilation (Esther 7–8). Ruth's refusal to return to her own people because of her dedication to her mother-in-law, Naomi, led to the ongoing line of the Messiah (Ruth 4:18–22). Rahab was instrumental in the victory of Israel over Jericho (Joshua 2). Mary carried God's Son in her womb (Luke 1:30–35).
The clearest profile of a kingdom woman that I have ever found in the Bible is in Proverbs 31. What is interesting, though, is that in all of my study of Scripture, I have never found a corollary passage for men as Proverbs 31 is for women. It could be that men need the whole Bible to get it right, while women just need a chapter.
The Proverbs 31 woman is the hallmark of kingdom women. I like to call her a woman for all seasons. She is strong, intelligent, capable, giving, resourceful, efficient, spiritually minded, and much more.
Now, don't close this book just yet. I know that sounds like she is a perfect woman, and you may feel that her standard is set too high to actually reach. But the Proverbs 31 woman is not the model of a perfect woman. Neither is a kingdom woman called to perfection.
Let's use a stay-at-home mom as just one example. A kingdom woman is not someone who can multitask perfectly while also home-schooling three very different children, serving on four church committees, carpooling eleven neighborhood kids back and forth to soccer, keeping her home spotless, coaching the spelling-bee team, functioning as a killer CEO in the workplace, making her husband have the best night of his life each and every evening, and maintaining a size 6 figure well into her fifties—all while cooking only organic, nongenetically modified foods and making every meal from scratch.
That woman doesn't exist. And we didn't put this book together to make you think that you should be her either. In fact, from my experience pastoring a church for nearly four decades and spending thousands of hours counseling both women and men, the issue is often that women are trying to do too much—and all at once.
Women, you can be a Proverbs 31 woman and more—but that doesn't mean you do it all at the same time.
One of the most important principles for you as a kingdom woman is that your life flows through different seasons. Each of these seasons carries with it different time constraints, blessings, and demands. To try to do all things without being cognizant of the season you are in is the surest way to burnout and even bitterness.
The primary foundation of being a kingdom woman doesn't include a million different things done a million different ways. The primary foundation is actually simple and straightforward. It is located at the end of Proverbs 31. After listing everything that this particular woman did, the verse says,
Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. (Verses 30–31)
What sets a kingdom woman apart from any other woman boils down to her fear of God. Her reverence determines her actions, thoughts, words, and priorities. Without that, the demands of life would overwhelm any woman.
Fear the Lord
A woman who fears the Lord will receive the praise that is due her. Her works and the products of her hands will give her the recognition and validation that are hers alone. When a woman understands who she is and how God made her—when she pursues her destiny in light of how God created her to function—what she does will produce remarkable results. This is because it will be in line with God's will. What too many women frequently do is base their decisions on trying to please others, or trying to earn acceptance, appreciation, or a sense of worth from their decisions, appearance, or actions. Yet God never said that you would receive praise for trying to please others.
The basis of how a kingdom woman functions comes out of her fear of God. How she prioritizes her home and family, organizes her life, makes decisions, chooses investments, and develops her skills occurs from her efforts to advance God's kingdom. If her priorities are rooted in anything else, they will lead to weariness and busyness rather than fruitfulness and abundance.
The simplest way I know to define what it means to fear God is to take God seriously. It means to place what God says and what God requires as the highest priority in your life. Fearing God does not mean that you are scared of Him. Fear is better understood as reverence or awe. It means to hold in highest esteem. A kingdom woman fears the Lord in every area of her life.
The marketplace does not control a woman who fears God. The television, magazines, blogs, and social media sites do not influence her away from Him. Her friends don't dictate her emotions or decisions. The culture doesn't define her. Even her own ambitions don't dominate her. Rather, the primary influence in a kingdom woman's life is God. His voice is the loudest. He is the One she seeks to please. Her reverence of Him determines her choices.
The Results of Fearing God
Yes, the Proverbs 31 woman did a lot. She earned her husband's trust, she made clothes for her family, she got her food from the choicest providers, and she invested in a small business with her earnings from planting a vineyard. She helped the poor, took care of those within her home, and dressed herself and her children in quality clothes. She brought respect to her husband and wisdom to those around her.
Keep in mind, she lived in a day and a culture where planting a vineyard did not mean that she did it all on her own. The passage said her arms were strong (verse 17), so we know she did do some of it. But based on the cultural norms of the day, it is likely that she hired others to work in her vineyard. She would have had maidservants who helped around the home, washed clothes, prepared food, and more.
When you break down all that the Proverbs 31 woman did and translate it into contemporary times, it really doesn't sound as lofty and unattainable. Essentially, she honored and respected her husband. She fed and clothed her family with the healthiest and finest she could afford. She invested the use of her skills in a personal business, spoke wisely and kindly to others, dressed herself attractively, and helped the poor. All of those actions can easily translate into your world today.
I don't want you to feel that what she attained is so far out of reach from what God is able to do through you. Because it's not. What it comes down to is that her fear and reverence for God caused her to do the best she could with what she had to promote God's kingdom and goodness in her own life and the lives of those around her.
Help Is Not Bad
An important principle that is often overlooked when we examine the life of the Proverbs 31 woman is that she was not too proud to get help. In verse 15 we read, "She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls." Servant girls is not a term that we use today. In ancient Hebrew society, it referred to a handmaid or helper. It is a small reference to a very important truth. As I mentioned earlier, the kingdom woman in Proverbs 31 didn't try to do it all on her own. She had help. She was diligent, resourceful, and productive, yet she didn't do it all alone.
There is a stigma today for Christian women in particular about asking for or using help. For some reason people have come to believe that "exhaustion is close to godliness" is written somewhere in the Bible. It is not. The fastest way to get yourself off track from fulfilling God's kingdom destiny for you is to view yourself as a superwoman who has to do it all on her own. The key to your destiny is humbly acknowledging your dependence on God and maximizing all He provides you, even if that includes accepting or using the help of others.
For example, in the corporate world, a manager would not be considered a great manager if she tried to do everyone's job herself. A great manager knows how to draw out the best from those around her while simultaneously leading and complementing their efforts. You don't have to achieve your destiny alone.
I was crashing and crashing fast. After a wild holiday season followed by a trip out of state for our son's surgery, I felt as if my household was spinning out of control. At the time I had a teenager, a preteen, a preschooler, a toddler, and an infant. Oh, and did I mention a loving kingdom man as a husband who just so happened to work in the music business, which meant a lot of travel and time away managing concert tours? I was sleep deprived, short on energy, and short on hours.
Looking around my house, I knew I couldn't do it all. But I was determined to try. I was convinced that I shouldn't need assistance with my duties as a wife and mother. I'd always worked well under pressure and been able to keep a few plates spinning at the same time. Having been a mother from the early age of nineteen, I knew what it was like to juggle priorities and commitments to get everything done. I liked being capable, and I definitely didn't want anyone else in the picture to get the glory, uh ... I mean ... be burdened with responsibilities that were supposed to be mine.
I would see other women who I just knew were superwomen and didn't ask for help. Little did I know that some of them were dropping their spinning plates too! We know how to mask things, don't we? Each of us in our own manner finds a way to make things look nice and tidy to outsiders while we know the truth about the mess behind closed doors.
I wasn't ready to admit that I needed help. I wanted to be superwoman too.
I remember one night of that crazy-busy season, in those wee, honest hours, sometime after the last child fell sleep and my husband dozed off, there was no sound except for the still, small voice of God wondering in a whisper if He had somehow been forgotten that day. I prayed with a metaphorical hand on my hip. "God," I said, "if You want me to have time for You, too, then I need some help getting things done. And I need You to bring help to me." I didn't want to have to humble myself so much to actually go look for help—therefore acknowledging that I needed some.
But that's how great God is. Despite my ornery self, He heard my prayer in the middle of my dark and overwhelming night.
Now before I share the answer to that prayer with you, let me tell you about my philosophy on cleaning. I abide by the saying, "My house should be clean enough to be healthy, but messy enough to be lived in." Because I homeschool our children, I don't ever expect my home to look like it came out of a magazine. I—along with four to five children (depending on the time of year)—am home at least four days a week all day. My house isn't going to stay pristine just because I clean all the time. Not possible. I strive for balance between being a good mom, teacher, cook, wife, and homemaker. I'll trade a random opportunity to bounce around on the trampoline with my kids over scrubbing the baseboards any day!
Sure, I know a handful of ladies who are good housekeepers, great housekeepers, in fact. I have tried to figure out with my husband how they do it. Here is what I have learned. We all have the same twenty-four hours in a day. If someone else's home is always pristine, it has to do with how she spends her time. My friend with the beautiful home and four homeschooled children has children all over the age of twelve. (Do you hear that, moms of small children? She has no little people!) Sure, she is running around to basketball and soccer practice, but with four other capable bodies in the house, she also has lots of help. Another friend of mine with small children has a gorgeous magazine-ready home. But her children spend three days a week at a Mother's Day Out ... and she has a nanny. My friend who makes gourmet meals every night has her kids in traditional school all day.
I also have a friend whose home is always in disarray, but she enjoys her little children and plays with them quite a bit more than I play with mine. They are always outside playing or inside working on some neat craft. Creativity and fun are their family's highest values in their current season. Ladies, it's all about how God designed you and what is important in your life right now. That determines how you choose to spend your time. No one can do it all.
So as a mom in the middle of mothering preschoolers on up to young adults, I just do my best. If I tried to put housework first at all costs, something else that is important would suffer: building relationships with my children.
As a result of my revelation, I have gone through a series of adjustments in my personal expectations over the last few years so that I can stay sane.
A few of my compromises are as follows:
I aim for a clean kitchen twice a day. Three times is a luxury. Even so, I always expect there to be dishes in the sink.
I shoot for a mopped floor two times a week, unless otherwise necessary. It's just too depressing to mop the floor only to find in just a few hours that it doesn't look like I did anything.
I try to hit each room in my house once a week on a rotating schedule. What does this mean? My house is not clean all at the same time.
I'm constantly training my children to care for our home, because I'm trying to work myself out of a job. This means our "clean home" is not going to be perfectly clean.
Laundry is always going. I do about a load a day.
My carpet is never going to look new, no matter how many rules I make about food and drink staying in the kitchen. It just doesn't happen. What can I say?
We live in our home. My teenager does schoolwork at the computer, my little ones do schoolwork at the kitchen table, we congregate at the island—in short, we are all over the place. As we transition to the dinner hour, I shoot for things in their place. If I can't have that, then I shoot for neat piles.
Oh, and the baseboards? I get to 'em when I get to 'em. (Or I'll just wait until my little ones are old enough to do a good job—they are nearer to the floor anyway!)
But here's my problem. I am comfortable with the standards in my home. But when I have a visitor, I'm still completely thrown into a panic. Why? Because I don't want to leave a bad impression of the kind of housekeeper I am!
So imagine my dismay when my dad showed up for an unannounced visit and proceeded to inspect my house. I kid you not; he went from room to room, each time saying, "Oh, Chrystal!" This coming from a man who barely raises his voice (except to preach, of course). Now, granted, the day he came was a bad day. Forget all my housekeeping rules. He wouldn't have known I had any!
In fact, it was a Monday. Mondays are always the worst. He commented on the spots on the carpet, the dishes in the sink, the stuff on my countertops, and the baskets of unfolded clothes in the hallway, and then he even peeked in my bedroom and saw the confusion in there. When he looked in my refrigerator, Dad groaned at the sticky stuff on the top shelf too.
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Table of Contents
Foreword Lois Evans Priscilla Shirer xiii
Introduction: The Significance of a Kingdom Woman 1
Part I The Foundation of a Kingdom Woman Purpose
1 A Woman of Value 17
2 A Woman of Hope 31
3 A Woman of Excellence 45
4 A Woman of Commitment 57
Part II The Faith of a Kingdom Woman Power
5 The Power of a Kingdom Woman's Faith 73
6 The Pursuit of a Kingdom Woman's Faith 89
7 The Possibilities of a Kingdom Woman's Faith 101
8 The Prayer of a Kingdom Woman's Faith 115
Part III The Fruit of a Kingdom Woman Possibilities
9 A Kingdom Woman and Her Personal Life 135
10 A Kingdom Woman and Her Family Life 153
11 A Kingdom Woman and Her Church 169
12 A Kingdom Woman and Her Community 187
Appendix: The Urban Alternative 199
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Kingdom Woman is a phenomenal book! It challenges women from all walks of life to be the woman God intended them to be.is that Dr. Tony Evans brings the biblical component teaching women how to understand God's plan for our life while Crystal Evans Hurst brings you the real life application and experience as a former do-it-all-alholic (as she so eloquently describes herself in the book), wife, mother, sister, godly woman, etc striving to be a Kingdom Woman to everyone and everything simultaneously (all of which I can relate). This book...Kingdom Woman reminds of us our worth, our purpose in God's kingdom, and that no matter where we are in our present situation in life; we are women of value, hope, and excellence full of faith, possibility, and purpose. Reading this book has helped to redefine how I view myself as a wife, mother, coworker, friend, and Christian woman. As a Kingdom Woman I realize that I don't have to be afraid of needing or wanting help, and as long as I reverence God, apply his principles to my life whether in the valley or on the mountaintop that it doesn't negate my purpose, calling, and responsibility as a Kingdom Woman.
"Kingdom Woman" by Tony Evans and his daughter, Chrystal Evans Hurst is a book that truly inspires women to be everything that God desires them to be. Within this book, you will find inspiration, hope, and a renewed sense of faith that whatever you are doing in your life, it can be done to God's ultimate satisfaction and glory. This book offers so much insight into how women can strive to please God in the everyday actions of our daily lives. Biblical references, tied with personal stories and experiences help to truly empower the Kingdom Woman to be all that God has chosen her to be. I really enjoyed the duality of reading from both Tony and Chrystal, and Chrystal's experiences are easy to relate to. Tony and Chrystal touch on three basic principles: purpose, power, and possibilities. They discuss foundational issues like faith, commitment, and church. This book is inspiring, motivational, and full of Biblical examples of these qualities. I think that this book is the perfect book for women of any age, from college through retirement - It truly has something that any woman can benefit from. I found it to be an empowering book, full of powerful insight into living a life that is God-ordained, and purposeful.
The Book as a Whole and the Author This Father/Daughter team are excellent. The book flows smoothly. Hurst's writings coincide with her fathers, but are written from a woman's stand point. I also fell in love with how Hurst presented her writings, in a journal format. Dr. Tony Evans is a well-known author amongst the Focus on the Family crowd, having written over 60 books. Evans shows us his expertise in the field, quoting various bible verses to influential persons throughout history. The mix of down-to-earth writing that backs the theology style is absolutely captivating. What intrigued me the most about this book was that it covered the SINGLE woman. Most Christian woman books are written from the wife/motherly perspective. Seeing as I have never been married nor gave birth, it's hard for me to see the relevance and application within my personal life. While a chunk of this book is written from that same perspective; it does cover the single woman. It renewed my esteem in being single and understanding that God has plans for me that may not include marriage. As Dr. Evans wrote, "The moment you become distracted by the idea of singlehood being nonfulfilling--on desiring or chasing after a mate rather than waiting on God's plan for your life (whether or not that includes a mate)-- you have let your singlehood get in the way of God's purpose." (Kingdom Woman, p.142) My Favorite Parts I always enjoy a book that contains humor. Dr. Evans and Mrs. Hurst slip in humor throughout the book. I found myself giggling at the words written on the pages. My two favorite parts just happened to be riddled with comedy. One was the comment that Socrates supposedly made (found on p. 152) pertaining to marriage. Sorry, I am not going to share it; you'll need to get this book. The other was a story of an elderly lady's faith in God as a provider. She lived beside a man that argued that God doesn't exist. The lady's faith never wavers nor does her praise. Soon, she begins to have some financial issues and struggles to find the funds to feed herself. Her non-believing neighbor decides to "call her" on her beliefs and prove that God doesn't exist. He purchases groceries and delivers them to the lady's home. When she starts praising God for providing, the neighbor jumps out declaring he purchased the groceries and God did not provide them for her. To which the elderly lady replies, "Jesus gave me these groceries--and made the devil pay for them." Hilarious! What I Got From The Book I got a peaceful feeling and a renewed sense of faith, especially dealing with being single so close to the age of 30. Reading Dr. Evans discuss the importance and freedom of being single and able to focus on God, renews my wavering faith. I enjoyed the book very much. I am only giving it four stars because, although I enjoyed it very much, most of the book was about playing the wife/mother role. The publisher has provided me with a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for this review.
I spent the better part of my free time last week reading the wonderful new book by Chrystal Evans Hurst and Dr. Tony Evans called Kingdom Woman: Embracing Your Purpose, Power and Possibilities. It gripped me right from the beginning. I’ve never highlighted so much in a book’s introduction! My favorite description of a Kingdom Woman from this book is, “A kingdom woman is to reflect Him and His kingdom in such a remarkable fashion, that people want to know more about the kingdom she represents.” This is something I aspire to and this book does such a great job of helping me get there. One thing I love about the book is that the authors use many examples of women in the Bible who are great heroes of faith, even if we don’t know their names. These women have stories that we can still learn from today. Hurst also expertly weaves in examples from her own life that readers can relate to that help them see how being a Kingdom Woman is a goal worth pursuing. I also appreciate that in the teaching portions, Dr. Evans spends time breaking down the original Hebrew or Greek meaning of key words and describes them in their historical context. I can’t wait to mark them all in my Bible. Every woman whether single, married, empty-nester or widowed can learn so much from this father-daughter team. I’ve been blessed by this book and can’t wait to give a copy to my friends.
I'm about half-way through this book and am loving it. I like the biblical teachings of Tony Evans and love the fact that he brought in his daughter to add in her input as a woman to enhance the book. Great read and I'd recommend it to any woman who longs to follow God.
Exactly what does it mean to be a kingdom woman? A kingdom woman is known not only by what she is seen doing but also by what is unseen. “But the Lord said unto Samuel, look not on his countenance, or on the height of his stature because I have refused him: for the Lord seeth not as man seeth for the man looketh on the outward appearance but the Lord looked on the heart.” I Samuel 16:7 (KJV). As you see, people see things from a superficial perspective but God is cognizant of the things unseen. Read more https://thejegroupzone.wordpress.com/2017/06/22/how-is-your-outerward-appearance/
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This was a great book with partical advice on how to be a kingdom woman. I turned this into a bible study for my church!