It is harder to die in this country than ever before. Though the vast majority of Americans would prefer to die at home—which hospice care provides—many of us spend our last days fearful and in pain in a healthcare system ruled by high-tech procedures and a philosophy to “fight disease and illness at all cost.”
Dr. Ira Byock, one of the foremost palliative-care physicians in the country, argues that how we die represents a national crisis today. To ensure the best possible elder care, Dr. Byock explains we must not only remake our healthcare system but also move beyond our cultural aversion to thinking about death. The Best Care Possible is a compelling meditation on medicine and ethics told through page-turning life-or-death medical drama. It has the power to lead a new national conversation.
|Publisher:||Penguin Publishing Group|
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|Age Range:||18 Years|
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Table of Contents
Part 1 The Best Care Possible
1 The Best Care Possible 13
Part 2 Life-and-Death Decisions
2 Between Scylla and Charybdis, a Rock and a Hard Place, and the Devil and the Deep Blue Sea 33
3 Balancing Acts-Weighing Potential Benefits Against Risks and Burdens 66
Part 3 Palliative Care: Completing the Therapeutic Continuum
4 Palliative Care-A Surprising New Specialty (Hint: It's Not Just for Dying) 97
5 Morbidity and Mortality 126
Part 4 Real Doctoring for the Twenty-first Century
6 What Are Doctors For? 151
7 The Busy Day That Sharon Died 186
Part 5 Transforming Medicine and Society
8 Fixing Health Care 221
9 Imagining a Care-Full Society 250
10 Standing on Common High Ground 272
What People are Saying About This
“There is no palliative care physician for whom I have more respect and admiration than Ira Byock. In this strikingly important book, Byock presents an agenda for end-of-life care that should serve as an ideal template on which to build our best hopes for the final days of those we love and ourselves—and a corrective for our society.” —Sherwin B. Nuland, MD, Yale Interdisciplinary Center for Bioethics and author of How We Die
"With elegance, compassion, and energy, Ira Byock shows us how to get the best end of life care. He is a great storyteller and a brilliant analyst of health care in America. This is the book to read or give, if you are facing this hard situation. Nobody gets out of this life alive, but Byock shows us how to do it elegantly and well." —Jane Isay, author of Walking on Eggshells
"This is an extraordinary and wise book on how dying people can be cared for. Written by a master clinician, a man of great compassion, Ira Byock has a vision of health care that is brilliant and kind." —Roshi Joan Halifax, Abbot, Upaya Zen Center, Sante Fe, author of Being with Dying
"In a world in which politics are polarized and ethical discussions often descend into a food fight, Ira Byock is that rare doctor: a humane guide leading us with honesty and compassion through complex stories about living and dying well. He's a real-life rebuke to those who think palliative doctors are "death panels" and a mentor to every medical student inevitably faced with mortality. This is must reading for everyone trying to make humane decisions in a high tech world." —Ellen Goodman, longtime syndicated columnist for The Boston Globe
“At a time when a long life can become a curse as readily as a blessing, this lucid and compassionate book points the way to more humane treatment of a life’s last days.” —Rabbi Harold Kushner, author of When Bad Things Happen to Good People
“The baby boom generation has transformed every stage of live we’ve touched. We’re now transforming the dying process. And Dr. Byock is leading the way… brilliantly!” —Christiane Northrup, MD, ob/gyn and author of the New York Times bestselling Women’s Bodies, Women’s Wisdom and The Wisdom of Menopause
"A magnificent, moving, and deeply important work. Ira Byock is a trailblazer whose life’s work has forever changed the way we view dying in this country. But there’s much more to be done. The Best Care Possible is Byock’s urgent and passionate call to action for the nation. This book is a must-read for anyone who thinks there’s even a possibility that they someday might die.” —Dave Isay, founder of StoryCorps, author-editor of Listening Is an Act of Love
“In a world of sound bites, end-of-life concerns are framed politically with emotionally charged rhetoric. Above the clamor, Dr. Byock writes a compelling case for consistent, compassionate, and enduring palliative care for all people as they reach the winter of their lives. Through vignettes he outlines the challenges for the patient, the caregivers, and the medical community, and ably advocates a revolution of care for the end of life. This is a revolution sorely needed and worth fighting for.” —Pastor Robert Fleischmann, National Director, Christian Life Resources
“Dr. Byock, one of the country’s leading experts in palliative care, shares his wisdom and insights on how to get the best care possible when we are confronted with a potentially life-limiting illness. When my own mother was seriously ill, Ira’s words helped our family make the right choices and make sure she got the care she wanted – and no more – during her last months. His words can help you.” —Elliott S. Fisher, MD, MPH, Director of Population Health and Policy, The Dartmouth Institute
“In The Best Care Possible, Ira Byock tells us why we need to move beyond medicine’s fixation on conquering death to a vision of end-of-life care focused on the quality of the patient’s experience. This is a beautifully written, highly personal account that makes real the struggle of patients and families to escape the “high-tech”, more is better imperative that dominates the American way of death. It provides compelling examples of how the physician, committed to reform, can help patients achieve the care they want and need. But Byock goes further: he makes the case that professional reform is only part of the solution; overcoming the medicalization of death will require the mobilization of the wider community in the support of the dying (and those with chronic illness).”—Jack Wennberg, MD author of Tracking Medicine: a Researcher’s Quest to Understand Health Care
“This is a profoundly truthful book. Ira Byock uses powerful stories about real people to explain the complications, nuances and often absurdity of advanced illness in 21st century America. He shows how courage, shared decisions, wise doctors and nurses and palliative care can make the difference. Above all, he calls for a cultural transformation, so we can deal with the end of life as individuals, families and society. Who should read it? All of us who are mortal.” —Bill Novelli, Professor, Georgetown University and co-chair, the Coalition to Transform Advanced Care (and former CEO, AARP)
“Dr. Byock lets the stories of patients, families, and medical colleagues open windows into the heart of the issues. He leads the reader captivatingly from story to story to see and feel what the best care through the end of life can be and deftly invites our nation to envision the best care for our culturally diverse society and cultures. Dr. Byock captures the fundamental human impulse to care lovingly for one another at the most sacred and privileged moments of our lives…now and through the end of life.”—David Lichter, D.Min., Executive Director, National Association of Catholic Chaplains
“Dr. Byock’s book rejuvenates me. In allowing us the special privilege of entering the sacred space of their final journey, people teach us precious lessons about ourselves. Dr. Byock has a gift of sharing the lessons he’s learned in a most readable narrative marked by compassion, love of life, and lucidity.” —Rabbi Bunny Freedman, Founding Director of Jewish Hospice & Chaplaincy Network
Most Helpful Customer Reviews
I found Dr. Byock the kind of doctor I want around when I become seriously ill. I've been with my family physician for over 20 years. He recently recommended I investigate hospice for a family member, my wife. As a part of the process I looked for books on the subject and found TBCP. Through his writing, I traveled the path of several serious patients - good material for someone who has not had family members pass away for a long time. Well explained thinking on many of the issues that come into play, not just case studies. This is a great resource, offering warm, serious writing and wisdom about a topic we all will face one day. Thank you Dr. Byock for writing this book.
I liked this book. Most of us will be facing end of life issues with our parents, other family members and ourselves. I think it is pretty safe to say that none of us are ever ready for it. Since I recently have been dealing with my own father and his declining health and near death, it was a very timely read for me. The medical care system in our country is exceptionally complex and expensive. This book does a good job of educating the reader on some of this as well as "gives permission" to choose palliative care, yet discusses how hard that is to come to terms with. I think it is well worth the read.
A well-needed recommendation for health care culture-change in America. A humane approach to spending our final days as optimally possible without technological interference.
For anyone of any age thinking of the issue of quality vs. quantity in life, Dr. Byock's book is worth reading. I've often wondered whether Americans' greatest strength - the boundless optimism and can-do attitude - actually works as a liability when it comes to accepting the inevitable. Because accepting death is seen as conceding defeat, might people insist on spending fruitlessly in search of cure for the incurable, thus exacerbating our current healthcare crisis? Dr. Byock's book thoughtfully explains the alternative and how going with hospice and palliative care may help to give the patients and their families time to grieve and bond, the time which might otherwise be lost if they were to endure endless cycles of painful surgeries and chemotherapy. I recommend the book to everyone, whether one is healthy or ill, because we'll all have to make the decision sometime in our lives.
A family member has pancreatic cancer, for which there is no cure. At this point it is a matter of quantity vs quality of life. This book has given me much insight and clarity about how to deal with the last season of their life. Definitely one of the best books I've read in awhile. Another book recommendation is "What Really Matters: 7 Lessons for Living from the Stories of the Dying" by Karen Wyatt, MD (2/21/2012)
As I said above this book is highly recommended.
I have read many of Dr. Byock's books and this is by far the best.. I met Dr. Byock at Dartmouth Medical Center in Lebanon, NH while a family member was ill and his methods were/are extraordinary... The end of life should be a private and personal choice... Wonderful book and gives one things to think about....
Tell the world about this book . Invaluable for those friends, acquaintances, family of those dying.